Marca - 18092026

Terry, as usual your advice is "spot on". I was involved in a similar situation with a man who was divorced 2 years when we met up again. He still was not ready at that point (almost three years after divorce) even though I had spent nine months getting to know him again (we went to high school together), and he sent me many letters, emails, telephone calls, and texts proclaiming his love and adoration and future "plans" (and had also visited me on several occasions.

Finally after he cancelled trips to see me on several occasions, sometimes as late as the afternoon before his flight, I realized that I could not go through this anymore and that he was just not emotionally available to me.

Interestingly, after he EMAILED me cancelling yet another trip, I just never responded to him again and he has not resurfaced to date - it's been six months. I do not care to be with someone who can go from loving me very much to so easily be without me in their life. It's just N*E*X*T - and I thank him for releasing me to now find a man who is so much better for me.

7:18 PM

Ronnie Ann Ryan said...

Terry,

What a deep and insightful response. My heart too goes out to this woman because this is a heart-wrenching and difficult situation.

I applaud your wisdom and advice which are both excellent. Not easy to deliver, but needed and smart. Good for you for being able to voice your opinion in a direct, yet highly compassionate manner.

8:10 AM

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