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Moments Of Weakness

Every now and then even i make mistakes. Yes, even me, the mighty Donlak. It’s okay, we’re all human, i dont care whether you are the most alphas of the alpha’s, sometimes you just get caught of guard, we’re all human. Hell look at Charlie Sheen and his antics, the guy gets porn star pussy and locks her up in a closet freaking out on drugs paranoid with dark delusions buried deep in his soul.

We all have our weak moments, our painful memories, our doldrums of work that seem inescapable and sometimes feel worse than getting bamboo shoved under our fingernails – the drive to keep our lifestyles and status quo can be overwhelming, especially if you’re under the somewhat delusional mindset that security is real, and having money and power is a sure fire way to keep hot babes. It isn’t by the way, you only need to look at famous rich people who get taken to the cleaners in divorce. It isn’t what gets and keeps girls, game is.

We all have moments, and yes even me, who get tired, fatigued, caught with our pants down in relation to having strong game – i wrote an article before about what our fathers never told us: run tight game always. It’s unrealistic to run tight game every waking minute, though it should still be what we strive for. We will make unconscious mistakes in what we say to women in these states, a little Beta can eek out of all of us. Even the jock that gets 1000′s of sorority chicks have these moments, trust me, it happens to all of us.

The point is, a man is not always completely 100% on his game – even star athletes have shaken confidence, and they have it displayed in front of millions of people both in a stadium and watching it on television. The point to all of this is how you deal with it that makes you a man, that can make you not Beta.

How a man deals with these moments is realizing that it’s just a fleeting feeling, something that naturally happens, that is inevitable. A beta will make a mistake with a hot babe, say the wrong things to her, get blown out, and he’ll mope about it for days. An alpha will feel a bit stupid for a small bit, then he’ll realize he’s got two or three other ones on the go anyways. If he doesn’t there will be more in the future. One of the keys is to never put any importance on any interaction with a girl, or a girl period. She is just another thing in your life. Not something to get worked up over.

I tend to beat myself up for a brief time, maybe ten minutes, about how i blew it and let my guard down, didn’t game properly. What i do then is tell myself, “hey, its a learning experience, don’t let your guard down, don’t get weak, don’t let it affect you”. The reality with me is, for the next day it will bug me, what i know now that i didn’t in my younger days is, that it wasn’t losing a chick, or getting blown out by her, it was that i let it happen, that really bugs me.

A man abhors weakness like nature abhors a vacuum. Men do not rest on their laurels and they don’t wallow in weakness, they strive for perfection – we claw at it – fight for it – tear things apart for it. We may never achieve perfection, but we will die trying, and we’ll take out anything in our way to achieve it.

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